At home with June. I don’t know why that title is making me giggle so hard.

I need advice.

[And that’s when the 10 people who read me knew we were really in an unprecedented time.]

That annoys me, by the way. Have you ever heard of the Spanish Flu? The Black Plague? We act like we’re the ONLY ONES in the history of TIME to go through this, just because we’re here now. Going through it. A hundred years from now some kid will get a history test wrong. “I said 9/11 happened in 2020 and corornavirus was 2001.”

“I said Spanish Flu was in 2020. Whatever.”

And another thing. Then I promise I’ll get back to the advice I’m seeking.

I’ve been watching Deep Rack Chop Rack or whatever his name is. I do like him. He’s been guiding us through Covid-related meditations, and be sure to ask me where to find those and don’t just use, oh, Google or anything. You can see how listening to him has mellowed me out.

Anyway I really do like him, but what’s with his glasses? It’s like he lost his own reading glasses and asked your Grandma Ina if he could borrow hers. They literally have rhinestones on them. I am riveted by them each time he talks. What made him say, “Oh, yes. These rhinestone Grandma Ina glasses will do”?

Back to advice time, with June.

I have to say, if I were grading my friends (and I did) on how they performed as friends when I had

SURGERY

I’d have to say Kit wins the prize. She brought delicious food she made, and then she brought delicious takeout the next time. Plus also, she brought me this violet and the cute dish that went with it. I loved its pale purple flowers, and now it’s been a month and look at it.

My advice is, how do I get more flowers to bloom? I read violets need “12 hours of light” a day to bloom, and I hate to inform whoever made THAT up, but no place has sun in it that long.

So what violet tips do you have for me? Tips of any kind.

Oh, I know! We can have advice day in the comments. If you’re home and thinking about stupid things you don’t usually think about, ask here.

Like, I was trying to take down the heavy brocade black-and-silver curtain in the kitchen this weekend. If ever there was something that was so me, it’s heavy brocade black and silver curtains in a paisley pattern.

The thing is, I know the people who lived here before me were, you know, classier than me. So when I was tearing down that curtain this weekend, as I perched precariously on the sink, I knew I was ripping down something expensive. But removing it and keeping it intact was not possible.

They not only stapled it up there with industrial staples, they also NAILED a BOARD up there and it’s stuck to that. So how do you get NAILS and STAPLES out of a frickin’ BOARD with few tools? Anyone?

I was also thinking we could all have a Netflix viewing party one night. What should we watch? We can discuss that today, too.

I will leave you with this. A Formerly Faithful Reader put a picture on Instagram last week of her dog, posing as a dog in an old painting. I’d show you it but I didn’t ask her permission and that would take time and who has time at the current breakneck go go go pace we’re in, running about?

Apparently the Getty challenged people to use what they had at home to re-create works of art. Oh, I was so in.

This took about 3 hours of finding the clothes and props and finding a way to fekking prop my phone up. Also too, I went to a LOT of trouble to get the lights to reflect in the window, and it cropped that part out. Lu annoy.

Also, I want a cloche hat.

All right, be sure to ask for advice in comments and/or let’s decide on a viewing party.

Cloisterdly,
Juuun

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    1. They are native to cloud forests so most of their water comes in the form of air temperature mist. We generally water plants with water that is colder than African violets are used to and cold water causes cellular damage and discoloration. Plus, most people overwater them.

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  1. Everyone has already told you what you need to do for African violets so I’ll tell you a story about them. My mom would go through phases of collecting things: weird doilies, tiny made-in-occupied-Japan china donkeys, Southwestern art, etc. When I was a kid, she started buying African violets. Eventually, she had about twenty, each with a different color or style of flower. Purple with a ruffle, purple with a white edge, pale lavender, pink with a ruffle, white with double flowers. So many African violets that they covered up a card table, part of a book shelf, and a couple window ledges. They’d bloom sporadically, some better than others. But then they all stopped blooming for months and months. She keep watering them and turning the pots so they’d grow evenly. But no flowers. So about six months of caring for them with no new buds and she flipped out at the plants. She started yelling, “You stupid African violets! Why aren’t you flowering? Argh! I’m sick of watering you and getting nothing out of it! If you don’t start blooming pretty quick, I’m throwing all of you out!” In about a week, one of the plants had flower buds. By the end of the month, all of them were flowering. It was African violet fest in the dining room for months.

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  2. Hi June and everyone,

    1. Violet advice? Umm stick your finger in the soil about one inch deep, If soil is dry, then water. Turn pot a few inches clockwise every day to rotate plant’s access to sunlight ( hey I’m no expert but I just got the care and feeding of a huge vegetable garden AND his 18 baby chickens assigned to me since my father is in and out of the hospital. Never did this before and I’m Googling everything so no one will die).
    2. I’d use the crowbar from my car or the claw part of a hammer, to pry and rip off the board ( where nails/staples are). Patch and paint and curtain over destruction😊
    3. Netflix…. the two seosons of the new “Lost in Space.” Omgd it’s so riveting and exciting. Season 3 will be released in 2022 and that is the final season…which makes me sad.

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  3. My advice is that if you wear your straw hat in the shower and hold it around your ears, maybe till it dries, it would probably look more like a cloche.

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  4. Easter is almost here which means lent is almost over. I gave up social media for lent. Who knew. Somedays its a good thing, so i hear. Im single and i am somewhat an introvert. However, I’ve been away from human interaction for way too long. I have no advice for Violets but I did buy a container of pansies. What were we talking about?

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    1. My cousin was giving up social media for lent for a few years too. She didn’t this year though. I think it is mainly because she became a grandmother six months ago and needs those baby pictures! She is a teacher too and at home so I’m sure she has social media to distract her some of the time.

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  5. Does all this advice apply to gardenia plants, too? I have a very lovely one that a very kind person sent me after my puppy passed, and it was blooming upon arrival, but ever since then, the buds come and they just turn brown, wither and die. Let me know, people. Thank you.

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  6. Your painting re-creation is the bomb. Don’t ask me about plants. I’m the only one in my extended family who didn’t get the green thumb gene. I kill everything. I mean EVERYTHING!

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  7. Now I want an African Violet! I used to have lots of plants when I was young and carefree. Now I almost kill that unkillable vine-y green houseplant whose name I have never known. It is still alive, but only because it’s up for the challenge of living here. A movie sounds nice! I will try–we’ll see if my students can figure this online learning thing out so I can stop Zooming 24/7. Oh, look–it is almost 1:30. I better go, I have a zoom in 5 minutes. UGH.

    Lovely post, lovely June!

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  8. My grandmother had African violets, she would never allow me to water them because she insisted they had to be watered from the bottom of the flower pot. She always had her violet pots in those aluminum pie pans and would pour the water in the pie pans and not near the plant. She had a water bucket she would fill with and used a tin can with holes punched in the bottom as a scoop that rained on her plants. I always thought it was so much fun to water all her other flowers. I would think the light doesn’t necessarily mean direct sunlight, just a lot of light. My grandmother had her violets on the front porch and I don’t remember it getting direct sunlight. Her flowers always thrived.

    I’m keeping busy currently cooking. I made corn muffins to use ingredients I don’t want to spoil, I had plain yogurt I needed to use. The muffins taste pretty good, but I much prefer whole, full-fat buttermilk. These muffins will be delish with vegetable soup. I’ve made a pound cake to use up some eggs, I have a friends that gives me fresh eggs and I had four dozen in the frig. They are getting half the pound cake and the other half is going into the freezer. I’ve made some cloth masks, but ran out of the non-woven interfacing needed, but I have some on order, hopefully it will arrive soon so I can continue that project. I am trying not to go to the grocery store this week, I’ve used most of the fresh vegetables, but I have a pantry full and frozen vegetables, for which I am so grateful. I’m keeping the TV off, but I’m listening to some great music. Also, I’m pretending I’m going to have company so I will be motivated to clean my house. I have gray dust bunnies (my cat is gray) just roaming around the floor, so I need to capture them. Saturday I cleaned out the flower bed, planted some kind of orange daisy plants hoping to attract bees for our vegetable garden, edged along the garden fence and helped my husband plant the tomatoes and peppers. There is enough yard work around my house to keep busy for weeks. Keeping my husband home has become a full-time job because he thinks he has a need to run to Lowe’s, or to the hardware store in town or the feed and seed store. NO! This is the week to stay home. I might be forced to hide his car keys.
    Tee

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  9. I literally have nothing today. NOT ONE THING. I am so sick of people and the news and social media. There’s just so many things to ponder and worry about and ugh.

    Imma go eat more cookies. I’m sure that will help.

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  10. My grandma used to be the boss with African Violets. I think the advice above sounds familiar and is better than any suggestion that I could have made. Love your painting recreation.

    Advice I am seeking: I babysit in my home for 3 families 2 or 3 days a week during the school year. 2 of the moms insisted on continuing to pay me during pandemic even though they are not able to drop their kids off. They are still working and have not been laid off. Both of those families gifted me with generous gifts – but more importantly heartfelt handwritten notes at Christmas to let me know how much they appreciate the care I give their little ones. Gratitude goes a long way with me. I have been gifted with anything over the years from gluten free cupcakes to very generous gift cards, but the notes are the things that speak volumes.

    The 3rd mom is a teacher – she is still being paid but is not dropping her kids off. Two kids who usually come 3 days a week. We are in home arrest status in Chicago. I texted her when this started to say that she had used all of her discretionary days (each family gets two weeks worth of days off when they don’t need to pay me if they are sick or take vacation, etc). So she paid me for a few weeks because we all thought we might go back to school, but once her school officially cancelled for the rest of the year her husband texted me to say ‘thanks for everything. Don’t need childcare for the rest of the year.’ And said they would not be paying me anymore for this school year.

    The issue is that I don’t think they value my services. People, I take these kids to the zoo, the park, forest preserve, library story time – all the stuff I did when my 6 kids were there age. I give them a homey atmosphere to grow in while their folks are at work. At Christmas they did not so much as give me a card or a candle or a baked good. Nothing. Yet the mom wanted me to remind the preschooler to give each of his teachers and his bus driver the cards that she stuck in his backpack on the last day before Christmas break.

    I want to tell them that they should have conversed with me about how to handle the remainder of the school year – NOT just texted me. I am open to making an arrangement that makes sense. They can pay me 1/2 of my fees for the final 6 weeks of the school year and one week of that will be applied to the fall. If they choose not to, then I will not hold the spot for their baby (preschooler going to kindergarten) and my rates may go up (um, I will definitely charge them more in the fall if they don’t pay me 1/2 of the fees for the end of the year). The thing is, I would be more understanding if the mom was laid off – but she isn’t.

    Does anyone have an opinion about this?

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    1. Fill their spot. I wouldn’t put up with those people for another 10 seconds. Good, reliable, loving child care is irreplaceable, but they feel they are far more important than you.

      Please text that asshat dad and say “Good to know. In that case, I won’t be needing you at my lovely home day care anymore. Good day sir.”

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      1. Lisa – I love this. I don’t take very many kids and it does make me nervous to start over with another family. I don’t care much for these folks and how they operate – the dad picks up and he does not knock on my door. He just walks in. It is unnerving. I have said countless times, ‘Oh, I didn’t hear you knock.’ It just wen on too long that it felt weird to correct him. Dude, this is my house. Knock on the door! The door is unlocked because my kids come in that way from school. Anyway, they don’t do much with their kids on the weekends. Like it was super nice here over Christmas and the mom admitted that they didn’t really leave the house. My kids are older and we still went to the zoo. The kid tells me that they don’t really read books, because he just likes TV better. Of course that is coming from a kid, but I do feel like they get out and about more and read more while they are with me. I have zero screen time. The other crazy thing is that I live so close to them that I am in the same school district. The 5 year old caught the bus to and from preschool from my driveway. Good luck finding that somewhere else when the little sister is old enough for preschool. It is tough to find an in home daycare that is going to drive your kid to and from preschool. They just don’t know how good they have it and the fact that they would communicate via text was LOUSY. Anyway, your response made my day. And it is not lost on me that the other families I sit for are over the moon about me. They ‘get’ it. One family constantly tells me that they feel like they won the lottery when they found me. I would bend over backwards for them. Gratitude and manners matter.

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        1. Just let your other parents know that you have a couple of spots. I guarantee they will find you a good family with a couple of kids. That mommy network is STRONG.

          And you ARE a treasure to the families who know how hard it is to find a good daycare provider. You put your whole heart into it – that’s rare! My daughter has a wonderful nanny that she treasures – they are paying her 100% of her salary to stay home. They know how hard it is to find someone they can trust to take the job seriously.

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    2. Personally, I feel for the parents. Although they are being paid now they don’t know what the futire holds and their expenses have also gone up with having kids home. I understand that you need your money too but to get paid while you are not all be it can’t watch their kids is asking a lot. That’s just my opinion and I also know that you are not the only one who was put in this position and have taken the same action as you have.

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      1. Out of curiosity, how would you imagine their expenses have gone up? I agree they certainly don’t have to pay for a service that they aren’t using, but then I also wouldn’t expect my spot to remain open when life gets back to normal. At the very least a conversation would have been a good idea – if there’s a chance we go back this year they’re going to wish they hadn’t burned that bridge.

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        1. I definitely think they were rude and I wouldn’t hold a spot for them either. But when your home all day, your expenses go up, food, utilities, projects. Different things. I also think that they could have handled it differently and when the time comes will be ringing her phone.

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          1. I really think they handled it poorly, Our school was on spring break and we were just hearing that the stay at home order was being extended. I kept trying to figure out what should I do? I figured I would address it after spring break, but once they heard that the mom’s school was shutting down for the year they just texted me that they were done. Classless.

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      2. I had the best home daycare situation for my older two when they were small. The best. And we paid her when we couldn’t be there because that’s the agreement. She has to pay her taxes and her SS and her health care out of what I pay her, and she gets paid whether my kids showed up or not.

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      3. I do feel weird getting paid when I am technically not doing anything, but I do think that my commitment to them should mean something and so long as they are still getting paid I appreciate them taking my situation into consideration. I have 6 kids myself and my husband is a physical therapist. Two of the out of town continuing ed classes that he teaches have been cancelled and that is a chunk of our income. Patient volume is down 50% – only people coming in are those who just had surgery and need therapy. Some employees are being furloughed. The mom teaches over 30 minutes from home, so she is currently saving a butt load on gas.

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    3. They seem to be ungrateful for the quality childcare they have been getting. It might be wise to fill the slots their children occupied or if you really want those children back up their cost significantly. I’m not sure how kids being home increase expenses. The past 15 years I have been home full time, but didn’t notice an increase in my household expenses, eating at home (this should be the case since we are under a shelter in place order) will save a huge amount of money, eating out is very expensive. Not paying child care will save another huge amount and not having to buy gasoline are current expenses that they don’t have to pay, so I’m not sure how the higher cost of staying home exists. Kids have so much stuff these days they should have toys and activities to keep them busy.
      Tee

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      1. They are either ungrateful or incredibly clueless or maybe both. I always stayed home with my kids, and I would have been incredibly appreciative to find someone I felt comfortable leaving my brood with if that was my situation. Other families have told me over the years that they could never have gone back to work if they didn’t have me. This family even told me just before the pandemic that the baby squeals when they pull in my driveway. So I know they recognize that the kids are happy here. I also post videos and photos of us out and about doing adventures at the zoo and the park and I set up play dates with my girlfriend and the kids she babysits for. These people are ungrateful but interviewing people to fill a spot in the past has brought in tons of riff-raff and I tire of trying to find people who are a good fit. Everyone wants my references but I feel like asking potential babysitting clients: “Can you have 3 of your friends email me and describe what kind of people you are?”

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    4. I am a school secretary and we are still being paid. I have to go in one day a week to make the Elearning packets for students who do not have access to a computer at home. Today I proofed the yearbook online: checked spellings of names, made sure children were pictured in correct classrooms and made sure that every student with a picture had a signed release on file.
      I can tell you from my own experience that my expenses are way down. I filled my vehicle up 3 weeks ago yesterday and still have a 1/2 tank. I’m eating lunch at home. No more running through Dunkin or Starbucks on my way in in the mornings for a coffee. My kids are home. No more lunch money for them. No random school related expenses that pop up.

      I say call them and talk to them about the remaining 6 weeks (do you have a contract families have to sign?), let them know you might not be able to keep a spot open for them and go from there. I know if you lose them their spot will be filled quickly by another child who needs a loving place while parents are at work.

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      1. I did type up a response, but I do intend to call them and converse over the phone. I will use my typed up thoughts as a guide. I will try to refrain from asking ‘Any idea how good you have it?’ I don’t think they have any idea.

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        1. You might mention how well the other parents think you do and that THEY are paying you for this time,to make sure to have you available later on.

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        2. I agree your clients handled this badly and don’t seem to understand what the rules are with the not-knocking and texting. I wonder if it is more a question of social ineptness (I am definitely on that spectrum) than intentional rudeness or not caring, especially if they haven’t had other child care. I think I am saying this because it makes me sad to think of the baby squealing when it recognizes it’s at your home and losing that happiness. I hope you have a productive conversation with them and they realize they can’t have their place held for them without paying you for it. If not, someone else’s child gets lucky. My two cents’ worth.

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          1. I definitely think he is just clueless about entering the house without knocking. I think he is just ill-mannered. I am confident but not sure that he thinks they pay me way too much. They once brought the baby only because the older boy was sick and he thought that meant he only paid me half- he venmos me. I give a very deep discount for a second child. The mom is the one that I interviewed with initially and explained fees, etc. She was quick to apologize when I pointed it out and paid me the rest. I believe strongly that once I call them and explain how I thought texting was not the best approach that they will be more willing to meet me half way. I am also not a monster and completely willing to work with them. This is a weird situation. I am a busy mom of 6 kids and it isn’t worth it to me to sit for people who don’t value me. If the wife (who is very nice and also clueless, but at least approachable and not dufus like) and I chat, I feel like we can work something out. I don’t think she is going to want to give up the spot.

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          2. Oh, and they were at another home daycare before they came to me. They had them at a home daycare that kicked them out because the baby was too fussy. Unheard of. So the place asked them to leave. Thinking back I wonder if the other place just had enough of Mr. Rude Dad.

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    5. Don’t take them back. You do more for those kids than I ever did for mine when they were little. I’d be groveling at your feet if I were those families.

      I would tell them “thanks for letting me know. I hope you find a wonderful caregiver in the future” so they will know you are firing them as customers!

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        1. I paid my sitters always…even when I took a day off, or went on vacation. These people are wrong….and IF you take them back, put a note on the door. Do Not Enter. Ring bell, or knock.

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    6. Is the husband being paid as well? I wish it wouldn’t be assumed that the childcare costs “come out of” the mother’s salary. It is all these small, almost unnoticeable social constructs that show the continued disparity between men and women.

      That said, you have every right not to hold their spot in the fall. I think they’re crazy to lose an amazing and close child care spot–at least where I’m from (and I think in many other places) finding someone caring to look after your children (and no screen time, wow!!) is like winning the lottery. I’m sure you can easily find another family, one that has better manners than this one.

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      1. I do not know what is going on with his job to be honest, which is the only reason I mention her job. I know that she is still employed/teaching. If they told me that he had been laid off – totally different story. That didn’t come up and I assume that is not the case, but once we talk on the phone maybe the wife will be more forth coming about that and then I will be fine with not being paid. One tough part about finding another family is that I prefer 3 or 4 days a week. I like to have one day to get stuff done, so that is one criteria not everyone can meet.

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    7. Im curious. Have you dealt w the mom the whole time and dad just jumped in? If so, please feel free to let them go. You are more invested in them then they are invested with you.

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      1. I mostly converse with the mom about details, schedules, and all things kid related. He picks the kids up and he pays me via venmo. That is the reason I assume he texted me because he pays me with venmo. I think he probably said, “I got this.”

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  11. You can use a flat head screw driver for the staples but the only thing I know of for the nails is a hammer. As for the African Violet – I got nothing.

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  12. I currently have about a dozen African violets, and they do best in whatever window gets the morning light. the closer to the window, the more mine bloom. Do not overwater or they will not bloom – When the top of the soil feels dry, water them, but only enough that the water sinks in quickly. If the soil stays soggy – especially if you don’t have a pot that drains out the bottom – then they don’t do well and the leaves start to get mushy in the stems and fall off.

    Do not water them on top of the leaves, water close to the soil. If you have a pot that drains the water (if the water flows into that cute dish) then don’t water again until the plant has sucked that water back up AND the top of the soil feels dry.

    That violet is getting pretty big for that pot, but you can wait until you can get out safely to buy potting soil specifically for African violets and replant into a larger pot.If you can only find big bags give me a shout and I’ll mail you some in a smaller amount. I have bigger bags of it because of the amount of violets I have, which keep multiplying and I keep giving them to my mother, who kills them and asks for more. The soil specifically for African violets has all the food they need so you wouldn’t need to feed them as well.

    If you have a flat-head screwdriver you can slip it under the industrial staples or nail heads and pry out that way. If there are holes you can see, you can get a small bottle of wood filler and put that in the holes, smooth it over with your finger and let dry before repainting.

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    1. ” I keep giving them to my mother, who kills them and asks for more”
      I just spit out my Diet Coke!

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  13. I was gifted an African violet once and it was in a little pot with a wick kind of thing sticking out the bottom and then was in a larger pot with the water. It wicked the water up as it needed it. That way you don’t get water on the leaves. Apparently water on their leaves is bad. ? Not too sure.Mine did well on the dining room table and there it stayed.

    My question for everyone is how the hell are you staying sane and not depressed just staying in the house by yourself all the time with no breaks? I’m trying but it is becoming a struggle.

    And yes, I would love to do a Netflix Party! I know you can do it through Chrome but I don’t know if it’s only 2 people or if multiples of people can join in. Shall I investigate this?

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    1. I remember Mom telling me to be careful not to get water on the leaves. Her African violets were beautiful. They lived nesr the west window, and so did my grandmother’s.

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    2. Lisa Pie I am struggling with the depression too and I work from home normally so it isn’t as much of an adjustment for me than others. Although it may also mean that I treasure my time out more. I thought it was just me with the WNY lack of actual spring weather, which we finally have, at least for a few days. The other Day I MADE myself work on organizing my bedroom for an hour. So that is my plan, make myself do something productive aside from work for at least an hour per day. Not much but something.

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      1. Also, try to get out in the sunshine for at least 15 minutes a day. Should help your mood.
        We can go outside here, just not gather .

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    3. I’m just randomly doing stuff for other people. I made a meal for a neighbor I don’t know That is struggling a little (saw them on my neighborhood Facebook page so I knew how many kids).

      Sewing masks for people who need them, walked my elderly neighbor’s dog.

      Stuff like that. I mostly like being home so those little things are enough “engagement” for me to be ok.

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    4. Honestly, it’s touch and go. Not all days are equal. Not all relationships are equal. I have more people that need and take than give to me. To keep busy I am privileged to work at home. I cross stitch. And some days i just don’t show up. My faith helps. Other than that I have nothing else to add.

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  14. We loved the automat recreation. Great! Your grandmother (the one you’re turning into) had grow lights in her basement and grew violets there).

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  15. My Polish grandmother raised African Violets – she had kazillions! It was in Michigan so not sure what the secret was but they were so beautiful. I think NC would be a wonderful place for them too! Loved that painting recreation!

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  16. I haven’t had an African violet for years but reaching back into the archives, here’s what I recall. They are fussy about repotting, they don’t like too much water and you should feed them African violet food. Your window spot looks good, hopefully it’s on the north side of the house? Your Hopper is spectacular. Yes to a watch party, that would be fabulous. What’s the dress code? Pants?

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    1. Yes to the violet care and also they like to be bottom watered (not a euphemism) rather than top watered. You can order violet food on Amazon. God bless Amazon!
      We have been watching Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, and all I have to say about that is I desperately want to go to Jewish family camp for two months in the Catskills. I never knew such a thing even existed! And it looks SO FUN!
      I love your art recreation!

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        1. Did he love it?? Was it like the show?
          I mean all I ever knew about the Catskills was that someone tried to put baby in a corner, there.

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          1. He DID love it. He went back there when we were married, I forget why. But he was out that way for some reason and went back to The Pines, where he summered. It was abandoned, but he managed to bring back a yellow desk phone with the little ring around it that told you if you dialed 8, you’d get room service or what have you. It was magnificent.

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          2. That movie was about a Jewish family going to the Catskills in the summer. Ok, that’s not really what is was about, but it was got them there 🙂

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  17. Have you seen that lady on FB that mimics skinny NY models? She’s slightly chunky and uses whatever to dress and pose like the model. She is hysterical.

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  18. I see the comments are fixed again. The date isn’t intruding on our pearls of wisdom.

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  19. According to my MIL, African Violets don’t like to be moved. (Insert song lyrics here)
    So your shrinking violet may just need time to adjust.
    Also, more advice. Granny’s Bloomers is a great fertilizer for the violet.

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  20. Ozark! (Although my neighbor told me she’s working her way through Jane the Virgin and now I’m also stupidly hooked.)

    I LOVED your painting recreations – v. clever!

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